The definition of "happily ever after."
There is nothing quite like the feeling of finding the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you survey all the people in the world, a vast majority of them will probably regard meeting the loves of their lives as one of the highlights of their being. It is an inherent human attribute for us to be constantly craving for love and affection. We are always looking for people with whom we can build a life of love around. Some of us are lucky enough to find it on early in our loves. A lot of us have to wait very long. A lot of us have to experience multiple heartaches and rejections. Plenty of us have to practice lots of patience, resilience, and hope before we finally find that one person who makes life worth living.
A lot of people often wonder how they would exactly know for sure when they’ve found the person to spend a lifetime with. There is an understandable insecurity that exists within a lot of relationships. Is the relationship that you’re in right now really the one that’s meant for you? Could you do better? Could you do worse? Should you be putting all of your marbles into this relationship right now? These are perfectly normal questions that pass through peoples’ minds a lot when they are in relationships.
Of course, getting into a long-term relationship with another person is a very big deal. It takes a whole lot of commitment, time, effort, and emotional investment in order for a relationship to work. That’s why a lot of people will tend to wonder if the relationships that they are in are the ones that are worth investing themselves for?
1. You and your partner always respect each other’s differences.
There is a mutual respect between the two of you that no one can break. You are always mindful of your words for each other because you never want to hurt one another. You also make it a point to make the other feel heard and acknowledged at all times.
2. You have mastered the art of nonverbal communication.
You don’t even need to be talking to each other to know how the other is feeling. A simple look or a subtle glance in the eye will be enough for you to figure things out. You’ve established the kind of rapport that can be found in the most experienced relationships.
3. You are each other’s best friends.
Before anything else, you are each other’s best friends. You are there for each other through the good times and the bad. You can rely on one another to always help push you through the difficulties of life. You always have a shoulder to cry on and a hand to hold.
4. You aren’t afraid of talking about the future with each other.
You know that your relationship has great potential for going the distance and so the future really doesn’t intimidate you. You start building your future plans, dreams, and goals around the premise that you will be together forever.
5. You always know how to value and cherish the time you spend together.
No time that is spent together is ever taken for granted. You always value each other’s company and you don’t like to spend too much time apart from each other. Yes, you need your occasional space from one another, but the desire to be together is always very strong.
6. You are comfortable with being your true self when you’re around your partner.
You don’t feel like you have to suppress or hide who you really are around your partner. You don’t have to put on a mask and act like someone you’re not. You aren’t worried about how your partner feels about who you really are because you both accept each other as is.
7. You have a relationship that you’re willing to fight and work hard for.
Not all relationships are worth fighting for. A lot of people get tired of being in the relationships that they’re in and they’ll just quit. Of course you know that this is something you can’t just afford to quit. You love being in this relationship too much to just let it go.
8. You push each other to become better people.
You are the type of couple that is always striving to become better. You challenge each other to become better people. You push each other to pursue big dreams and aspirations. You always try your best to make sure that you are living the lives that you deserve to be living.
9. You are okay with being completely honest with each other.
Honest is one of the most important things that you can build your entire relationship around. The best kinds of couples never feel the need to hide anything from one another. They always try their best to cultivate a safe space for complete, unabridged, unadulterated honesty in the relationship.
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