You can buy her the most expensive gifts in the world. You can take her out to the fanciest restaurants you can find. You can give her the biggest diamond ring possible. But in the end, the small things you do for your girl, the things that make her smile when she’s down, the sweet gestures that remind her of why she loves she, will be the ones that will matter most to her.
Why? Because these are the things that show her how you’re willing to do anything to make her feel special, without requiring a solid reason for it like a birthday or any other special occasion.
Here are 8 small things that are bound to leave a big impact on her:
Every day that she’s with you, make her feel beautiful
This might seem like an obvious one to many people. Some men who are reading this might even think to themselves, “Not a problem. I call girls beautiful every day!” But that’s not what I mean. You don’t need to tell her that she’s beautiful- any guy in the world can do that. What you need to do is reach out to the deepest corners of her heart and make her truly feel like she is the most heart-wrenchingly beautiful woman who you have ever come across.
Even if she seems like the most confident girl in the world, you still need to reinforce her. And it doesn’t matter if she just woke up from 14 hours of sleep and her entire face looks swollen like a ball, she is still beautiful! And you, of all the people in the world, should really act like it. Understand the fact that it’s not only in what you say, but it’s in what you don’t even have to say. It’s reflected in the way you look at her, the way you talk to her, and the way you touch her.
Stay honest
Honesty is a quality that everyone in your life will expect from you. You may not be able to live up to everyone’s expectations in this regard but it is absolutely necessary to display this quality at all times to that one special person in your life. Staying honest with your partner will show them that you actually respect them enough to be straight up.
This doesn’t mean that you should just say anything you like without any consideration for their feelings. You need to choose your words wisely, but you also need to make sure that your partner is assured of the fact that no matter what the situation is, you will always give them a straight answer about everything.
Never compare her to other women
You really can’t have any valid reason to do this in the first place, but what needs to be clarified is that you should never make your girl feel like she’s the ‘best’ out of ‘all the other girls’. Because saying this implies that there already are, or there were, other girls.
We’re all grown up. We all realize the fact that everyone has a past, but what’s the point of bringing it up over and over again? Instead of making her feel like she’s the ‘best’ girl, try making her feel like she’s the only girl, because that’s what she actually wants.
Don’t miss out on the little things
This is basically an extension of what I explained in the very beginning of this article. Don’t let the small things fade away with time. Don’t let go of everyday gestures of love in favor of occasional grand romantic gestures.
Open her door and pull out the chair for her when you go out to eat. Hold her hand tightly no matter how long you’ve been together. Hug her from behind and kiss her when she least expects it. All these things will work towards bringing you closer together.
Listen to her
You are the person she turns to when she’s looking for love, support and guidance. And sometimes, the only thing that can make her feel better is for you to sincerely listen to everything she has to say, without saying a word, and just allowing her to let it all out.
Make sure your day starts and ends with her
You both have separate lives. You both have work to do, places to be at, and people to meet. So it’s not always possible to see each other every day or even to call and talk for hours. But what you can do is to just send her a simple text when you wake up in the morning and before going to bed at night.
This will make her feel connected to you. It will assure her that no matter how busy you are, she is still the first and last thought on your mind every day. It will make her feel loved and wanted, and you will see her reciprocating by making you feel the same.
Don’t try to be her problem-solver at all times
This is something that comes naturally to men. When they hear about any problems, they feel compelled to look for some kind of solution or suggestion, in order to make things right. But when a girl is venting her heart out to you, that’s not always what she wants.
More often than not, the only thing she wants at that point is for you to simply listen to her and show her that you understand. She doesn’t want you to hand her the answers. She just wants you to support her in figuring them out on her own.
Pay attention to the tiny details
Whether it’s the date for when you first met, the movie that always makes her cry, that intense cake craving she gets every time she is on her period, or that locket she kept looking at in the store- paying attention to details like these and then doing something about them to surprise her, will show her how you really hear her when she talks.
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What do you do to make her feel special? Let me know in the comments below!
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